Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Insomnia and Tears

Insomnia and tears seem to go hand in hand for me lately. I'm up to 1-1:30 am nearly every night. I have difficulty in falling asleep. I don't nap in the afternoons so I should be tired enough to sleep but I'm not. I went from not suffering from it to suffering from it.

I'm still crying at times (probably due to the lack of sleep so I'm up thinking about things). I never wanted to lose my organs...gone is my uterus, left ovary and cervix. Gone is more than half of my right ovary which tries to function but I still suffer from hot flashes every now and then. I realize that with the extent of disease that I had, there was little choice for pain relief and I needed pain relief. It's a painful reality that I live with. It's my Catch-22...rip out the organs that are so disease they aren't worth saving or keep them and pray that I wouldn't have the daily pain that I was in before my surgery. We (Jeff, Dr. Albee and myself) chose for the best possible pain relief and that meant ripping out the organs.

When I found out that I definitely had this disease in January 2000, never did I figure that it would be this bad. Never did I figure that it would be bad enough for me to rip out the very organs that I longed to keep. Never would I imagine crying over their loss. My tears aren't constant but they are there late at night when the house is quiet and I can't sleep and upon waking in the morning when I long for more sleep but can't get any.

I keep meaning to call my friends up to vent about this disease seems so selfish at the moment to me. So I wait until I'm a little less needy.

My migraines have lessened but is that due to me taking butterbur twice a day? I have no clue.

It'll be 9 months this month since my surgery. Maybe that has alot to do with things.


just maybe..........