Christmas is Here...My Heart Isn't in It

I wish that I was better emotionally right now. Feelings of 2001 have been flooding back with intensity and I'm wishing that I could crawl into a hole until the holidays are done and over with. You see I was peak in my fertility level Christmas Eve and Christmas Day 2001 when we were trying to conceive. I hoped and prayed that I would become pregnant...I never did. I never did experience that positive pregnancy result or experienced a baby inside of me. I am grateful (searching for the right term to use here and feel like I am failing miserably) that I didn't experience a miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy or a stillborn. I had several friends that experienced the first two things and I cried after getting off the phone with them after listening to them cry and me trying to remain calm and supportive long distance.

I am eternally grateful for what I do have: my loving husband who has stuck by me and has put up with my emotional rollercoaster ride back when we were trying to conceive, losing my friends, and dealing with me emotionally since my surgery, my kids who are my joy and my light, my family who helped after my surgery and watching my kids while I'm off at my various doctor's appointments, and my friends who have called and sent me emails and cards checking up on me and have listened to me cry on the phone.

This year I didn't do Christmas cards (the first ever) but did do a newsletter and sent the Christmas photo with Santa for the adults...for the kids they got their Christmas cards. I think I've sent off about 170 cards this year.

While I'm grateful that I'm alive, since so many things could have gone wrong during the surgery, and that the surgery has lessened the pain, the hysterectomy has made me feel slightly less than a woman and less than sexy. I'm grateful to Dr. Albee and Dr. Yeung for removing all of the endo that they could from my body. I'm grateful that my research led me to have surgery with the doctors at the CEC.

I hope that emotionally I start feeling better soon...that I'm back to myself again. I have my good days and I have my emotional moments. For Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, I'm setting aside some me time to mourn. I need to.

For those of you reading this, please read and sign the petition to Stamp Out Endometriosis. It means the world to me right now.